Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Easter rabbits and colored eggs?


Homily for  Sunday, April 27, 2014              Graves Chapel

           
            I know this isn't supposed to be show and tell, but I really want to share this little book with you today. It is called The Country Bunny and the Little Gold Shoes, and when I open it up, the name printed inside the front cover is that of my dear aunt, Mabel: Miss Estes. The little inscription tells me so much. My aunt Mabel is the one from whom I inherited my calling to be a teacher. Mabel began her teaching career in the late 1930s at the Wolftown Elementary School.  After teaching in Wolftown for a few years, she moved to Northern Virginia and taught kindergarten and first grade in Fairfax County for many years.
            After she passed away and I got her house ready to sell, I found this little book among her things and just had to keep it. I have vivid memories of her reading this book to me--more than one Easter--when I was a child, and it remains one of my favorite picture books. The fact that it is labeled "Miss Estes" to identify the owner tells me that my aunt must have read this little book to her students, and I bet some of them loved it as much as I still do.
            The rabbit of the title is first described in the story as "a little country girl bunny," and maybe that's one reason why Mabel and I both found this story appealing--we both began our lives as little country girls born right here in Graves Mill.  Ultimately, though, the humble origin of this little rabbit is not what this story is about. It's a story about Easter.
            In this story, we learn there are five Easter bunnies, not just one.  As a little girl bunny, the main character announces that she wants to grow up to become one of the five Easter bunnies, but the big white rabbits and the tough Jack rabbits all laugh at her and tell her to "go home and eat a carrot."  They tell her to forget her dream.  And, for a while, she does forget. She grows up and gets married and has 21 little baby rabbits. Being very organized and a very good mother, she has a happy home, and she teaches her little ones how to help with all the household chores and how to behave appropriately.
            One day she hears that a new Easter bunny has to be selected since one of the five current bunnies is going to retire. Try-outs for the job will be held at the Palace of Easter Eggs where the wise old Grandfather Bunny will choose the new Easter bunny. The selection is based on several important criteria: Every Easter bunny must be wise and kind and swift.  Our little country bunny, who with her large family has given up on the idea of becoming an Easter bunny, decides to take her 21 children with her to watch the try-outs. Who knows? Maybe one of them will grow up to be an Easter bunny!  Well, since I hope you may decide to read this book someday to your children or grandchildren, I won't tell the rest of the story. Suffice it to say that the country bunny learns that an Easter bunny not only has to be swift and wise and kind, but also brave and self-sacrificing.
            Sometimes these days I hear people grumbling about the commercialization of Easter, about the silliness of Easter bunnies and dying Easter eggs. Since the rabbit and the eggs have sadly become, for many Americans, the only part of Easter they still observe, I sympathize with such grumbling. It is a real shame that we often seem to have forgotten the true meaning of Easter.  It is also a shame that most of us, even we Christians, don't fully appreciate the lessons about Easter that the rabbit and the eggs were originally intended to illustrate.
            The tradition of the Easter rabbit began centuries ago in Germany, among the early Lutherans, who associated with the Virgin Mary the legend of a hare who could lay eggs and mother many offspring while still a virgin. This Easter hare, or "Osterhase," can be seen in medieval paintings, illuminated manuscripts and other art placed next to Mary and the infant Jesus. The legend became custom, and German children would prepare nests of grass inside their bonnets or caps so that the Osterhase would have a place to lay her eggs, delivered to good children on Easter morning. This custom, now evolved into our Easter baskets, was brought to our country in the early 1700s by the Pennsylvania Dutch.
            And, you may ask, what is the source of the colored eggs? Catholics, Lutherans, Episcopalians and other orthodox churches traditionally fast during Lent.  In medieval times, to preserve any eggs from being wasted during the fast, they were boiled or roasted. Often they were painted to separate them from fresh, unroasted eggs. On Easter morning, when the Lenten fast was broken, the painted eggs were a special treat.
            These two Easter traditions, passed down now for centuries, symbolize some basic elements of our belief in the Resurrection.  Jesus died on the cross to save us, and he arose from the grave to give us the promise of eternal life. The life-giving productivity of the Easter hare is a perfect representation of that abundant life promised to all of us. The colored eggs, consumed at the end of the Lenten fast, illustrate how our faith is life-renewing. Easter is celebrated in springtime in the Northern Hemisphere, where these traditions originated in Europe and where we live in America. Easter and its celebration of the Resurrection, like spring and the greening and blossoming of the earth, remind us that life is everlasting. The very fact that these centuries-old traditions are still carried on every Easter, as if bringing those Easter baskets out of the attic or a closet is itself a kind of resurrection, is a powerful reminder for us and for our children that life is eternal.
            Today, the second Sunday in the season of Easter, we have two lessons in the words of Peter, apostle and founder of the church.  Peter reminds the early Christians that Jesus Christ not only taught us how to live our lives--"You have made known to me the ways of life; you will make me full of gladness with your presence"--but Jesus has also illustrated for us how to overcome death.  Alleluia indeed! As Peter proclaims to the crowd [in Acts 2:22-32], “God raised him up, having freed him from death, because it was impossible for him to be held in its power.”  Let me repeat that: It was impossible for death to hold Jesus in its power.
            In his first letter, Peter writes, "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! By his great mercy he has given us a new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead... Although you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and rejoice with an indescribable and glorious joy, for you are receiving the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls."
             Theologian Richard Rohr explains how our faith offers us the blessed assurance of eternal life in this way: It seems that we are born with a longing, desire, and deep hope that this thing called life could somehow last forever. It is a premonition from Something Eternal that is already within us. Some would call it the soul. Believers would call it the indwelling presence of God. It is God in us that makes us desire God. It is an eternal life already within us that makes us imagine eternal life.... God, by every religion’s best definition, is love (1 John 4:16). What follows, of course, is that if we are God’s creatures, then love is what we are too, at our deepest core and final identity. When we live consciously within this love, we will not be afraid to die, because love is eternal, and that core self is indestructible. “Love never ends” (1 Corinthians 13:8). [endquote]
            Jesus said we must become like little children if we want to enter the kingdom of heaven. I think he meant that we must have the all-trusting faith of a little child to believe in that much love.  Maybe the children in our lives, and the inner child in each of us, can allow bunny rabbits and painted eggs and the joy of Easter morning to strengthen our faith in the resurrection--and in God's love that made it possible.

AMEN.
           

What would Jesus have us see?



Park Street Christian Church and Graves Chapel            Sunday, March 30, 2014

Lessons:
Psalm 23
1 Samuel 16:1-13
Ephesians 5:8-14
John 9:1-41

            Have you had the experience of losing something, looking high and low for it, and then finding it in the very first place you looked, right where you left it? This happens so much at my house that my husband calls it "front of the shelf syndrome."  We think it’s interesting that I can find his lost items much more easily than I can find my own--and vice versa.  I believe this says a lot about selective seeing.  I don't think "selective seeing" is the kind of seeing Jesus wants from us.  In fact, selective seeing is a kind of half-blindness.  There is enough light to see by, but our eyes are doing their own thing.
                        Please imagine for a moment what true darkness was like in the Palestine that Jesus knew.  We live surrounded by so much artificial light that it can be difficult to ponder how very dark it must have been in the evenings of Jesus's childhood, especially in the winter when days were short.  Darkness must have felt almost palpable to people who lived in ancient times.  How splendid that the birth of the infant Jesus was heralded by a brilliant star!  It should not surprise us that this infant would grow up to be called "the light of the world."  In the world we've come to know as Jesus's world, circumscribed by a very few miles and revealed to us by the stories of his travels and his works, who are the ones that see by his light?
            Images of light and seeing and their opposites, those of darkness and blindness, pervade not only today's lessons, but many other verses in scripture as well.  Sometimes the words of Jesus, couched in metaphor or parable, can seem inscrutable, but one thing is clear: the kind of seeing presented in scripture isn't just about the use of one's eyes, and those who are blind are not necessarily suffering from loss of physical vision.
            In today's gospel lesson from John, the man born blind becomes a seer, while the Pharisees, caught up in their rigid rules and outward righteousness, are unwilling to see the great healing miracle before their eyes. The Pharisees choose to be blind to the truth when it is not the truth they prefer.  Selective seeing…
            We can certainly find other gospel stories to illustrate the way the Lord chooses to see and would have us see.  Here are opposite examples of selective seeing in one famous parable. A priest and a Levite hurry past a gravely wounded man, robbed, beaten, and left for dead by the side of the road.  Their self-importance blinds them to his great need, and they choose to ignore him, but a Samaritan sees the wounded man with the eyes of his heart, and that Samaritan does all he can to help him. We could also say that the Lord sees with the eyes of the heart. Jesus wants us to see with compassion, to put our own hearts in contact with the hearts of others, the ones we encounter who need our care.
            When I pass by a homeless person standing by a stop sign and asking for a handout, I sometimes catch myself thinking unkind thoughts about him—a way of making excuses for why I don’t stop my car and offer real help, a way of choosing not to see him. Since we humans more often behave like the Pharisees and the priest and Levite than like the Samaritan, Jesus actually says very clearly in one passage what kind of seeing he expects from us:  "How can you say to your neighbor, 'Friend, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself do not see the log in your own eye?"  Isn't this an interesting way to say that we are much more likely to find fault with others than with ourselves? By using the eyes as the central image, Jesus asks us to consider observing ourselves more closely than we observe others.  He asks us to turn a light on the glaring faults within ourselves rather than so willingly seeing the minor faults of others and criticizing them.  Socrates said, "The unexamined life is not worth living."  Jesus says much the same when he asks us to recognize our blind and unloving spots.
            In his letter to the community at Ephesus, Paul writes that Jesus is the light of the world and that he has come to free us from all darkness--from the darkness of despair, the darkness of poverty and hunger, the darkness of danger and oppression, the darkness of injury and illness. When we ourselves choose, as the priest and the Levite did, to be blind to the needs of those around us, we are shutting out the light. The light of Jesus is the light of love, and it dispels the darkness. As Paul so beautifully puts it, "Once you were darkness, but now in the Lord you are light. Live as children of light, for the fruit of the light is found in all that is good and right and true."
            "All that is good and right and true...” Aren’t those words simply beautiful? There is nothing inconsequential in God’s creation, nothing outside the attention of a loving God. As Jesus tells us in Matthew 10, “Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?  Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the Father.” We humans may devalue many of God’s creatures, not seeing their worth, but we are told the hairs on our head are numbered and God’s eye is on the sparrow.  This kind of love, which expresses itself as protective tenderness, is also described in Jesus’s parable about the lost sheep: “If a shepherd has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine that never went astray.”  (Matthew 18:12-13)   For Jesus, seeing is not just passive; it involves active looking and finding.  If we are the lost sheep, then we certainly have done nothing to earn that persistent seeking of the Lord. We are just muddling through life as best we can, wandering wide of the mark on most days, and yet the Lord seeks us out and returns us to His gracious protection. His is “selective seeing” of an entirely different order of magnitude!
            Sometimes for us, the issue is more about blindness than seeing, about what we can’t see rather than what we don’t see.  Thankfully, we have the apostle Thomas to be our test case. He, of course, hears from his fellow apostles about the appearance of the Risen Lord, and since Thomas hasn’t been present when the Lord has appeared, he says he won’t believe the Lord is risen until he sees the nail-scarred hands.  I’ve never been sure it is fair to call Thomas “doubting.”  His question is one any reasonable person might ask, and because he asks the question, he gets a direct response from Jesus:  “Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who believe without seeing me.” (John 20:29) 
            That blessing brings two things to mind. One is that faith itself is a blessing, and the interaction between Thomas and Jesus underscores the way we receive the gift of faith.  We may not see the pierced, resurrected body of Christ in the same way Thomas saw him, but we do see Jesus every day of our lives, if we look for him.  We see him in the faces of those who need us, in the eyes of those who seek us, in the hearts of those we love.   As Psalm 23 so beautifully reminds us, the Lord is our shepherd, and he is always near.

Psalm 23 Page 612, BCP
Dominus regit me
1
The LORD is my shepherd; *
I shall not be in want.


2
He makes me lie down in green pastures *
and leads me beside still waters.


3
He revives my soul *
and guides me along right pathways for his Name's sake.


4
Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I shall fear no evil; *
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff, they comfort me.


5
You spread a table before me in the presence of those
who trouble me; *
you have anointed my head with oil,
and my cup is running over.


6
Surely your goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days
of my life, *
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.

AMEN.







           








What Does Love Have to Do With It? Everything!


Homily for Sunday, February 23, 2014                    Graves Chapel



Matthew 5:38-48
Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, `An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to everyone who begs from you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you.
"You have heard that it was said, `You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."


My brother, who sometimes comes to these services, calls me “the prophet of love.” Now, since he is my big brother, Larry’s intention is to tease me, but I don’t mind.  I don’t believe I’m the prophet of love, but our gospel lesson for today includes the words of the one who was the greatest prophet of love the world has ever known. Who else but Jesus would say, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy,’ but I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…”?  All of the actions as well as the words of the one we call Jesus were filled with love. He lived what he preached, turning the other cheek to Pilate and Herod, praying for his persecutors, extending the hand of love to reputed sinners, healing those who seemed incurable, and restoring the dead to life.  His life was a miracle of love.
            But some of the words about love in today’s lesson offer a real challenge to those of us who want to emulate Christ’s love.  It is really hard to turn the other cheek when someone wounds us. Some wounds are just not easy to forgive. And how many of us would find it easy to give all that we have to others in need?  I think everyone here is willing to give a coat to someone who needs it, but would we give our last warm article of clothing?  Just what does Jesus mean when he tells us to be perfect? After all, we are just human.  Can we really love others the way that Christ loves us?
When I was thinking about how to explain the kind of love that Jesus exemplifies, I thought of his first miracle at the wedding in Cana. I think this miracle doesn’t get enough attention. Since it isn’t one of the extraordinary healings, it seems rather pedestrian. The whole changing water into wine episode has been an uncomfortable story, unfortunately, for some churches that forbid the use of alcohol. Back in the days when this chapel was a Baptist church and I was a child here, I remember being told that what the people of Jesus’s day called wine was really more like grape juice. And grape juice was what we got at communion here. Each of us had a little sip of grape juice from a tiny cup; there was no shared chalice and no wine. I’m still not much of a wine drinker, but I think drinking the blood of Christ from a shared chalice of wine is a better reenactment of the Last Supper it is supposed to commemorate. Sharing bread and wine at the Lord’s table is the most important action we Christians undertake to demonstrate we are all members of the same body—the body of Christ, the body of the church, one family.  (But I do admit that, when our mother had to put things away after communion here, Larry and I raced to drain the leftover grape juice from all of the untouched glasses.)
            What if instead of discounting the first miracle, when Jesus changed water into wine at a wedding reception, we embraced it for all it has to teach us?  Remember, it was Jesus’s mother Mary, after all, who instigated the miracle.  Don’t you love that scene? They are at a family wedding, and when the wine runs out, Mary wants to save her relatives from embarrassment, so she tells Jesus to do something! He initially resists, but then asks for several jugs of water. And he doesn’t just change all of that water into any old wine. The steward who tastes it acclaims it to be the best wine. In that scene, the importance of wine—the blood of the eucharist, the blood of Christ—is prefigured.  Since most of the other miracles performed by Jesus have to do with tragic aspects of life—when he heals those who are ill or disabled or brings the dead back to life—how lovely it is that this first miracle is set at an occasion of joy! How splendid that Mary guides her Son to perform his first miracle, as an act of familial love! For me, it reinforces the idea that the Lord is always present with us, in the midst of our family gatherings, in times of joy and of sorrow, and that miracles are always possible. It is a reminder to be grateful for those everyday miracles of simple blessings that we often overlook.
What could be more fitting to represent the establishment of a new religion, one based on love, than a wedding?  In some of his parables, Jesus refers to himself as the bridegroom. And how is Jesus like a bridegroom?  He is faithful.  In the Hebrew tradition, the period of betrothal (or engagement) tested the faithfulness of the groom to his betrothed. The wedding itself was the proof of that faithfulness. A bridegroom is filled with love for his chosen one, just as Jesus loved and continues to love his people.  As any bridegroom would feel, Jesus’s love for us is a very tender, protective love. The church has long been called “the bride of Christ,” and we are the recipients of a love that is faithful, intimate, exclusive, and true. As the “bride of Christ,” we respond with our own tender love, our fidelity, our willingness to serve Christ in one another, our trust.  
The miracle at the wedding at Cana is not just a light-spirited event in the life of Jesus that can be easily overlooked. That miracle foreshadows all of the joy, love, and communion each of us can experience in the church.  The collect for today, the seventh Sunday after the Epiphany, has long been one of my favorites for its bold statement about the nature of love, and it would be a good prayer to say at a wedding:
O Lord, you have taught us that without love whatever we do is worth nothing: Send your Holy Spirit and pour into our hearts your greatest gift, which is love, the true bond of peace and of all virtue, without which whoever lives is accounted dead before you.

Grant this for the sake of your only Son Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.