"Take up your cross and follow
me." When we think of the
cross as an instrument of torture and death, Jesus's instruction to us does not
sound very appealing. Even metaphorically speaking, the idea of "having a
cross to bear" suggests a true burden. If we adjust our view of the cross,
however, to consider what it meant to Jesus, we may be surprised. For Jesus,
the cross was the fulfillment of his mission on earth. By bearing the cross
with humility and courage, Jesus demonstrated what it truly means to serve
others in the ultimate sacrifice of self.
"Take
up your cross and follow me." Jesus never tells anyone to worship him.
More than once, as he does here, he asks us to follow him. Do what I do, he says. Love one another and show by your
actions that you mean it.
"Take
up your cross and follow me."
Jesus says YOUR cross. He
doesn't say, "Take up my cross." We are NOT being asked to bear the
kind of cross that Jesus bore, or to make the ultimate sacrifice. We ARE being
asked to identify a pressing need before us and to do what we can to address
that need. On any given day, our
cross is the most important task we are given to do. It is our best opportunity
to demonstrate Christ's love to someone in need of that love.
Today's
epistle is an excerpt from Paul's letter to the Romans, and it is actually a
good description of what Christian love looks like:
Let love be
genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with
mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be
ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering,
persevere in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality
to strangers.
Bless those who
persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice,
weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty,
but associate with the lowly; do not claim to be wiser than you are. Do not
repay anyone evil for evil, but take thought for what is noble in the sight of
all. If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God; for it
is written, "Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord." No,
"if your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give them
something to drink; for by doing this you will heap burning coals on their
heads." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. [Romans 12:9-21]
Why
can giving others love be considered a cross? Because it's not always easy to love, as Paul suggests. Love
requires patience, empathy, humility, and a willingness to serve, even a
willingness to serve those we consider our enemies. Christian love is genuine
and impartial. We are told it's a love that extends to people whose behaviors
we may consider sinful. In fact, it's a love that does NOT consider what others
do or don't do. It's hard work! It's the kind of hard work I see people in this
community doing all the time. For
example, just this past Tuesday, Doug Graves, Phil Sterbling and Kevin Tucker
installed a new handicapped-accessible toilet in the bathroom here in the
chapel. If that's not taking up a difficult cross, I don't know what is!
On
Wednesday of this week, Doug, Dave, and I will travel to Spotsylvania
Courthouse for a meeting of Region I of the Diocese of Virginia. Our purpose is
to request that the Diocese continue to support Graves Chapel as a mission
church. Our reason for doing this is that Piedmont Episcopal Church in Madison,
which has long been our sponsor church in the region, is no longer able to
support us. We hope to convince the Diocese, and in particular our region, to
provide what we need in order to keep our doors open.
For
my part, I plan to tell the story of Graves Chapel and all the ways I see
evidence here of people following the path of Christ and serving others.
I've
already mentioned Doug Graves. If you don't know how much he does around here, please
consider. Doug does all of the mowing and landscaping that gets done on the
chapel grounds. If there is a needed service or repair, Doug will quietly
complete the repair and pay for it as well. In addition to all of the labor for
the Lord that Doug performs here, we can also thank him for the brochures he
has made available. We are very grateful, as well, to Joe Rowe, whose
extraordinary generosity has made possible the many recent upgrades to the
chapel. When those upgrades have happened--when the electrician was here to
replace all of the wiring, the fans, the lights, for example--Doug was here
with him, helping with the work and making sure it was done right.
Our
good neighbor Dreama Travis also gives of her time, talent, and treasure to
keep the chapel going. She has brought so much beauty into the chapel with her
eye for decorating. When the chapel needed to be spruced up for its inclusion
in Garden Week a few years ago, Dreama organized those efforts and did much of
the work herself. Just last Sunday, when we had a service of baptism in the
Kinsey Run, Dreama brought vases of flowers to decorate the chapel for that
special event.
Carolyn
Lamb has been driving from Greene County to play her guitar and lead us in song
ever since I first began these services here. She brings the chapel to life
with the joy of the old-time hymns we sing, and she does this as a volunteer.
This service is the second of three services Carolyn attends on Sundays, and
when she leaves here, she and her husband Nelson (who has also been a faithful
supporter of the chapel) head over the mountain to Elkton, where Carolyn will
play in another service. Last
winter, when health issues kept them at home for a few months, the services
seemed very bleak without Carolyn and Nelson.
Phil
Sterbling, as I said earlier, worked with Doug to replace the toilet this week.
There are so many more things Phil and Karen have done for the chapel over the
years. They've contributed the tables and chairs, and they have worked to get
the chapel organized, decorated and ready for the annual Christmas dinners.
When David and I came to clean the chapel before our wedding in 2011, Phil was
here to help us clean.
There
are so many more things the people of this valley have done to take up the
crosses placed before them and serve their neighbors with love. When Cecil
Berry was in need of assistance, the whole community rallied around him, and
Michelle Smith, Dreama, and Judy Berry took special care of him, taking him
meals and driving him to appointments.
We
hope and pray Graves Chapel will continue to be the center of this very
special, Christ-filled community.
AMEN.